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A man’s guide to buying her jewelry

By Ryan on Aug 22, 2021

Chocolates or diamonds? They’re both a girl’s best friend. The problem with guys is, they view jewelry differently than a woman which IS justified! Men usually have a miserable time figuring out what to buy.

“You can always tell what kind of a person a man really thinks you are by the earrings he gives you.”

– Audrey Hepburn starring as Holly Golightly in Breakfast at Tiffany’s

If you are like most of the guys, you probably know as much about buying her jewels as you do about her random tantrums but don’t you worry, it’s not going to be an agonizing experience anymore because we’re here with some basic tips to help you make the right buying decisions. There are a few essentials which can express your lasting love, like what? Like a pendant, pair of earrings or a ring!

Watch her shop

You can eventually understand your wife’s or girlfriend’s tastes by being with her and accompanying her every time she wants to pick a special piece of jewelry. Not only that, observe what makes her voice get excited and maybe surprise her and purchase it. Her eyes won’t stop sparkling with love. It’s such a cute gesture after all.

Consider her lifestyle and personality

By far the most important factor, you can easily predict woman’s preference by considering her personality. If she is a hopeless romantic, a heart shaped pendant will do the job but if she’s too picky it’s wise to stick to something classic.


Don’t try to make the deal so complicated; you don’t have to spend a lot to get a lot. Some featured causal designs can be a safer option for spicing up her accessory game. You absolutely cannot go wrong with a simple gold bangle or a digital watch.

Diamond stud earrings

So turns out your girlfriend is into designer and expensive jewelry and you are not ready for an engagement ring yet. Good news is diamond studs have been a classic since forever! They are available in a range of prices and designs. Now when you know about studs you would definitely notice every celebrity wearing them. Oh, and don’t try to fool her by getting a cheap pair of earrings instead, it can be a major turn off. Sorry…

Know what you want before going

Never ever walk into a jewelry store and say “I’m looking for something thoughtful for a friend.” Save yourself from that misery, because most likely you will be ushered to the most expensive items moreover, you cannot rely on another person’s taste. Be mindful and have a clear idea of what exactly your options are going to be.

Look at the jewelry she already owns

Does she wear more gold or silver? Do you see more gems and diamonds? Does she prefer necklaces over bracelets? Are all of her earrings dangling or simple studs? There you are with most of the information you should know. It’s not smart to introduce her with something new, take note of her current line up so she actually wears what you are going to get for her.